Wellness Blog
Associate Therapist, Léa Chung
Ever notice how sometimes being with others leaves you feeling energized and other times it leaves you feeling drained? That's your social energy level at work! Just like physical energy, our social energy varies from person to person and even from day to day. Being aware of your social energy level is super important, especially when it comes to empathy, mental well-being, and asserting your needs.
Imagine your social energy as a battery. Empathetic people often use a lot of their energy tuning into the emotions of others, which can be both rewarding and exhausting. By being mindful of your social energy level, you can better manage how much empathy you extend without feeling overwhelmed. This balance is key to maintaining your own mental health and well-being.
But awareness is only the first step. It's also crucial to assert your social energy needs. Whether it’s taking a break when you’re feeling drained or seeking connection when you’re feeling isolated, being able to communicate and act on your needs helps protect your mental health. This self-assertion helps prevent empathy fatigue, reduces stress, and keeps you feeling balanced and happy.
So, next time you're planning your day or week, take a moment to check in with your social energy level. Need some alone time after a busy social weekend? Go for it! Craving connection after a quiet spell? Reach out! By finding that sweet spot and confidently asserting your needs, you can continue to show empathy without depleting your own energy reserves. Your well-being is worth it!
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